She told me that I told to her friend that I am taking good care of her. How can you expect a girl loves you if she never calls you first? If she never initiates text but always responds to you, that just means youre chasing her. Im always text her and she always replies back but I suddenly realized that if she is into me she should atleast sometimes initiate the conversation first. You get into a relationship with the girl you love even more than your life. You wouldve been much better off saying nothing and not responding to her. Hmmm yeah i hear you, thanks. She may not be your ideal type, but thats upRead more . It might take her longer, but if youre having a good time when youre together, shell hit your phone up one of these days. So, to stay out of your way and not impede your productivity, she may be doing something that you interpret as her not being interested in the relationship as much as you are. I know you dont want to hear it, but its also possible in your case that she doesnt like talking to you. 8. I seriously live her. Youve already gotten physical so its up to her to come over and decide to have sex. Sure thing brother. Because right now youre being needy. The Problem is she never meetup and give reasons doesnt even say no.. but keeps on flaking. Ideally you shouldve not confirmed and let her text you. Im kinda over it but more of look at it like a game now, its fun haha. Give her a chance to breathe and hit you up. Just say see you tonight. She never texts you first because she doesn't want to bother you. So I go and we talked face toRead more , Hey man, thanks for the question. This is assuming this isnt a girlfriend. She will call because she misses you the same way you do. . Best thing you canRead more , Every other time shes told me shes going out with her friends to a movie or out to dinner or any other place my instant reply is have fun. Thanks for the response. And you should stop looking at her stories too. Thanks rebel! Your email address will not be published. Since you see her in person, its better off to avoid texting and try flirting with her in person. Youve turned things around and are in a good position. You wanted to fuck her but then when she asked you, you lied and said you got mad because she thinks you only want her for that. Send a picture or video of yourself doing something and get some conversation going. I think youre overthinking it. The truth is that someone else will probably get her attention down the road. Thanks for the reply! Find other girls to date. However, between you and her, its a symptom of the overall relationship. Recently, I was on the phone with her as I was driving and my phone died. Sure thing brother. Sill reversible if she chases you going forward so dont sweat it. If you didnt give a fuck, you could invite her over. If you have met someone who has issues with passing a message across via written words, you would know that they dread anything that requires writing down their thoughts on paper (or even typing and sending them via text). But if shes never texting you first, then you need to stop. Thats some beta shit. And youll likely develop a bad case on oneitis for her. You gave her a chance to actually miss you and hit you up first. Sure thing my man. Nothing forces her not to call you because love demands communication. She does sometimes but not often. Just a week ago I dated her and she really enjoyed that !! You can still push for hanging out if she doesnt in the first text, but let her hit you up first. So yea, don't text her first for now. (If she doesnt show up, so I dont waste money on making reservation). So you should be fine without texting her everyday. Weve been talking for 7 months, I like her, I love her (she always texts me first) I believe sheRead more . Maybe you blame your girl for every poor thing in your life or disrespect her. Me myself suggested sat or Sunday Evening and told her to decide a place to meet up. Honestly, this girl is showing major red flags withRead more , Apparently shes on birth control but she also has a kid and today i went to the park to play basketball and the park just happens to be by her house so i posted it and but anyway she texted me asking me if i was near her house and i told her i left about an hour ago and she said ok never mind so i didnt text her for 3 hours then i texted her back saying hey and she said hi and so i told her pretty much told her i stopped talking to her to thinkRead more , If you break up your sentences it will be easier to follow but I think I understand. Or at work. Then, open up the communication lines and allow her to reach out to you at her pace. Again, with being a busy person, you gain respect for people's daily schedule and priorities. You read it right; if a girl truly falls for you, she calls you first and wants to know every moment of your day.. If I call she will respond but only with a text. Youre only going toRead more , I do feel like maybe im too available and thats made her too comfortable with me and that could cause her to get bored. Hey man so your advice did work, i stopped texting her and though it took her the entire day to send me a message she did message me first after she got off work asking me how i was and all that. Its a flake if you two make plans to meet at a time and a place and she doesnt show up. Ive noticed for me, girls are more likely to show up / not cancel if I dont text to confirm. You want her to see you as this nice guy that doesnt just want to fuck. Thats my point. You need to follow these steps to make your girl text you first. At first, you want to overlook this, but it starts getting exhausting as time proceeds. shes just texting u whenever she felt no one around her is with hershes just trying to kil time with u . The best thing for you to doRead more , What am about to ask is a little awkward but I am actually an awkward person first am 24 years old and I havent had a girlfriend for as long as Ive been alive, that is something I dont understand. If you dont have your girls attention, she will not contact you. I am not talking about a girl who calls you sometimes but a girl who never calls you. Well now back to the present she barely likes to text i always have to text her first and ifi dont shell go theRead more , Thanks for your comment. But like you said, you already got oneitis for this girl. I blocked her. Theres a bunch of backstory there that would affect any possibility of striking up any type of romantic relationship with this woman. Youre the one confessing how much you want to be with her. See where it goes. These thoughts can intensify if she knows that you are busy and you have your stuff going. Then she had to take care of things. Cookie information is stored in your browser and performs functions such as recognising you when you return to our website and helping our team to understand which sections of the website you find most interesting and useful. Your girlfriend doesn't think texting is that important. You shouldnt do anything for a while, just wait. But i guess this is normal behaviour for most people. She never texts first, and youre starting to wonder if this means anything. She never sends a "thank you" text after our date, and she never texts me first at all, but she is good at getting back to me if I am the one to contact her. Right now youre doubting your own value. So I got this girl I am dating her I initiated contact 3 days in a row after that I havent its now 3 days I havnt texted her and she hasnt either. so i was texting this girl on instagram and we hit it off immediately so we went out and we fucked on the first link , after the second time we fucked about two days after she started making excuses about facetiming each other , which was kinda weird because she said i was the best she ever had but she got mad that i didnt bust inside of her and she stop texting first so i made two mistakes with continuing to ask her too facetime and i started texting first but after that i started being dry andRead more , Did you wrap up? This isnt even a chick youve slept with and youre already obsessed with her. Ive seen how many messages she has unread and isnt into phones/social media much (she has a super old phone). So as the power shifts more youll get more validation seeking behaviors from her. Be hot and cold. Id leave this girl alone. The problem is that she sent it to few others in her snapchat list aswell. Most guys are too stubborn and it takes a few tries, its awesome you manned up and now shes affectionate. However, it just seems like hes being desperate and weak. (Weve never met in person, I added her on facebook). If a girl said that to you, youd think she was butthurt. Combine that with acting like a man, leading the relationship, and the roles can reverse. Which means the relationship you do have with her is headed in the wrong direction. Make yourself a more valuable man. Youre still constantly chasing her. Shes not your girlfriend, you shouldnt be bringing up other men. Regardless, that was her trying to make plans with you. This could be why she never texts you first but always responds. I dont know, i like playing hard to get but not sure if i wanted to push it so far. If she starts to think you dont like her as much or youre losing interest then thats good. Being too nervous around a girl in fear of fucking up is going to kill your game. Sure thing brother. I get questions like this girl never texts me first and I always initiate all the time. Then a few days lter i asked her when she was around, she threw out wed/sat. A girl youre seeing dating should give you a text soon as well. You also made the mistake of giving her presents on a 2nd date, shes not even your girlfriend. She liked myRead more , Come on man. Doesnt seem like it because youre still this worried. Nothing else. Hi there. Women desire constant validation and attention. AND SHE REPLY THANK YOU THEN I DONT TEXT OTHER Im sure SHE TEXTING WITH to other men And I never think of texting her again. Sooo, theres this girl I like at uni.. If you love her and are willing to continue the way things are (with you always starting the conversations), you may want to continue working on the relationship. Become a smooth talker to make your girl feel comfortable around you. 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