He is learning about emotional affairs, and you are learning how to recognize and talk about the signs a husband is cheating. whiteflag said: My husband gave me an STD, he wont admit that he cheated and tries to get me to believe that maybe I had it for yrs (we been married 6) and Im just seeing the signs. Ami, You need to walk away and let him work it out with his wife. Im very moody so my mood changes a lot and I disagree with her when she says something illogical. Now my gut confronts me again, he went on a short 3day business trip. I wish I had known everything before we were married. Even after all this crap! I am consumed in what happened. Over the past three months, he has become defensive over things that dont make sense. He also has a girl on Twitter that he talked to over 38 times in one day. Would you believe him again? Most women, I think, would feel that way, too. He didnt answer any of my calls nor did he return my calls as he usually does. Not to mention I also saw his exs name in the history also. Constantly trying to make up for his mistakes and telling me he loves me everyday and that hasnt changed but a week ago I seen some disturbing texts between him and his fast friend concerning a females number and her calling my husband that Sunday night on his cell.we had made plans to spend that Sunday together but he never came home from work that morning we he finally called he said he was taking a Co worker to a pet store in another town and then to a second town anyway he never comes home all night.next day when I confront him he blows up and we argue for two days and hes constantly been hanging out at night and I just dont know which way to go anymore my heart is in many pieces I try to trust but my heart cant my stomach turns at the thought I just cant go through the past again I need serious help I have no strength left. Men who are risk-takers or easily sexually aroused are also more likely to wander; for women, relationship issues are stronger predictors of unfaithfulness. Its feels good to be bad and naughtythats in us!!! I also found hed subscribed to a number of online cheating websites for married people..dating back to before he proposed to me. He stopped inviting me to his company picnics 6. Btw. In general, if you suspect your husband is cheating, then he probably is. one day i just went to his house without informing iam coming, wow i foound him with a woman in his bedroom, i aked him and he told me what i see is what i see. Then I noticed that he messages or calls his roommate early in the morning like around the time they should be leaving for work. There are a lot of financial issues as well that could be keeping him here I think thats the only glue. He became defensive. I understand now I was bigger and better person than he was all along. My life has been him and my two daughters. I have been with my husband almost 5years and I came united state from other country. When furloughed , wow eye opener i got. He always has been a sweet man. I will stop for now. here it goes my husband of 15yrs. May you find the right people and resources to help you through this stage of your life, and may you be strong even when you feel like your world is falling apart. Hello ladies I have been in my relationship for 6 yrs now and have two kids. In my belief, at just shy of 50 and with the same guy almost 30 years, if you lose who you are and give up your own dreams and independence, you not only will eventually find your spouse and yourself at opposite ends continually but you will find yourself at 50 wondering why you became one of the coulda, woulda, shoulda clan. An empty condom wrapper fell out of his bag and now i have a yeast infection. these conversations are about how he wants to make them feel sexualy, where they are going ot meet, the one with my so called best friend says that he had gone there and that she was getting better at certin things. Hi I have been dating with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. When I showed him, he would respond with, well you asked for that of course she is going to hurt you because you are pathetic to even think that of me. I guess love really is blind, its just im on a fixed income i dont make much money, I get government help, but if I leave him, How on earth will me and my baby make it? I told myself that it would go back to the way it was. For kicks, Im going to take a picture of him asleep in our livingroom. Even if there are children, no children or adult should live like this.my guess he is cheating. Then I went to his office and conveniently his American Express bills were not in the files. You must determine what you will live with and at what cost. I believed him and asked him not to lend out his phone if they were going to use it to text girls. he never gave me the answers i wanted so I never forgave. Its a fascinating look into a marriage and the mind of a cheating man! i told him its over the same time the other lady react and tells him you did not tell me you got girlfriend then he said now you know as from today you should know you are 2. He never did. That man came just to hit.kick, boxing me in front of shopping centre. The only one that he doesnt have is not being home all the time. Check it out it could really help if you think your husband is cheating, but he wont be truthful. Either way, you may learn more about their relationship, which will help you move forward. Kind of like for me if he can't admit it I'll never move past it. Hi, my husband has cheated on me in the past and I found out through his email and another facebook account he had. Thank u very much! Confronting a cheating spouse without doing some prep work often leads to negative outcomesconstant denials, changing stories and confusion . I cried and cried. So, do you want to live with your husband the way he is right now? If their belly button faces the door or exit, its because subconsciously they want to leave or escape. I cant take it anymore. We have >ow 3 boys together befor my last pregnacy I found another womens number on his account to his phone and called her she said they was just friends. because Ive been cheated on and I know how it feels. It hurts, like a part of me died and I feel low about myself. I just want the truth and validation, then I will move on. Most men will start out as friends and will end up cheating on their wife.. Am I overreacting or am I searching for things? PLEASE LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH NOT TO LET YOURSELF BE WALKED ALL OVER!!! Thinks we can work on this together and tells me that I can go if I want to. Im so sorry you have to go through this. I have struggled with my husband for over 15 years. The study involved 506 men and 412 women who reported being in monogamous sexual relationships lasting from three months to 43 years. Every time i ask him, he is angry and he reacted so much, he is not sweet as i know him before we got married, for now he loved our 4 months son, is he really cheated on me? I prayed that God would reveal it to me so plainly that I couldnt ignore or feel crazy. Always trust your gut feeling. I have phrased it as if from the female partners point of view to keep it in keeping with the above. I just found out through pics on his phone and he said it was just porn. I was left empty. Only that he wants someone to take care of him like a mother. We fought and fought. Laurie .-= Laurie Pawlik-Kienlens last blog post11 Differences in the Way Husbands and Wives Handle Money =-. Yes, you will struggle financially and your heart will be broken because you have to let go of someone you love. He told me he secretly emailed an old friend for 4 weeks, but did not see her in person other than that one time. INTRESR COMPLETELY LOST. But he says nothing. Let him see that youve chosen to be above him and treatment of you. We talked about it and it was made clear that it was due to other factors of the current living situation that had nothing to do with each other. The man is trying like Hell to cheat on you. Then from activity log I can see who he sent friend requests, who he deleted. Husbands arent appreciated at home, so they cheat. And, you cant do it alone. Also the fact is that we had LOVE MARRIAGE . one time when i asked him about it he said he was drunk. My husband usually works on Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesdays. A year ago my husband received an email from a female worker with a bikini picture attached. He lost it with me during a discussion about something he said he read to me, that I had no memory of hearing. I have spoke with her and came to a point that i forgave him. What a douche! Just think about how happy well be in our happy little house. Shed found a rental in the neighborhood for him to move out into, 3 bedrooms so the boys could go back and forth. IMHO you have a responsibility for you. my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 years and we just had a baby girl dec 2012. i recenlty found conversations of him talking to other girls on facebook, one being my so called best friend. Its not a myth or a fairy tale. hi, This is rani my issue is that my husband seems like cheating me due to various reason.because i found some changes in him like coming late to home, avoiding me coming to his office , deleting his phone history but after asking abt tat he was managing to keep few entries .showing difference in bed,bluffing , and suddenly showing huge affection towards me somtimes mentioning three instead of two. he always wants sex like alot he snaps when i say somthing that is not postive gets very defensive me said i can leave but can not take th kids. You need to understand that you deserve better and cut your losses before you are 30 years, 3 kids and 3 grandkids in. since then i been angry and just disgusted and just dont believr ever anymore he snaps at just about everything know i knoe pot does that controols the mind and stuff but omg and he changes his mind like 5 times in oneday with many things so i also think he has bypolar he alots of signs of it well know im a pretty lady a nd love to excersice so look pretty he hates anyone talk to me but i know it cause he can talk to anyone freely but not me my whole life was oneway jay so no im not asking how to handle this i know im crazy to leave right i know but he needs help or just leave im not the kids but no he wont leave i tell him i cant take it anymore well today i broke into his facebook and put more links gether but i do my research very well and when it presented lol im a physcic funny another lady said it too know when u look u find but yes ur mind can can just put other crazy imagainations well i been angry for a long time taht for years when we fight i dont care man years ago when i sure didnt know anything i was like nono dont leave me know wtf im lkike omg but right kno cause i saw facebook and the contacts that match his recent phone he had that lied and a bill was sent to his grandfather saying his cousin gave it to him no im not neive i dotn fall for nothing and he knows for years I h have been knumb well right know i justi can die i just cant anymore but my boys i love my boys they are so smart i dont want to go to work tomorrow know i been strong a long times for years casue other day he said patty i love u blah but yes he mite but me im a good girl i dont have freinds im home for my boys we do stuff but as a family we dont maybe 5 times a year or sothing likekid b day or they got honors but it never fun he yells at us i know it the pot in his brain cause one second nice then snaps then jums to sothing else or the bypolar thing i think he has my kids said it once too they noitce it and i dont disrespect there father to the kids please if they new anything like that omg no words for that. We first met through a mutual friend. My gut says he is still after her. If he is really intent on behaving as though nothing happened, try suggest going on a date, just as a way of starting again if for no other reason. Thank you for being here, and for sharing what youre going through with your husband. If you really want to ask someone who cares, who understands the risk and who can lose everything.ask his wife. Its normal to feel confused and get mixed messages from your instincts, because this is an extremely emotional subject. I accidently discovered some condoms in his suitcase. There was and still has been no sympathy or compassion for my broken heart. Lately though up until now he doesnt try to even hardly make a move to sleep with mehe never makes out with me unless we are doing it. There were just too many loose ends that were unexplainable or the excuses just didnt really make any sense. 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